both me and Karen had a good childhood, we were not a rich family money wise by any means, and mum always referred to me as a Walter Mitty type person, always day dreaming about "what if's" as sad as we were when dad passed away, and now recently mum, its thanks to them that one bit of day dreaming has become a reality, Im buying a broad leaf woodland, in the garden of England (Kent) and once its been explored, we will hopefully find a spot in one of the open areas, that are covered in bluebells, and plant a tree in memory of both mum & dad, erect a small plaque and a simple bench, and area for family to have a Walter Mitty moment